Di batang langit kita berjumpa, di batang langit engkau berdansa.
Indahmu menghadirkan harap dalam setiap derap. Panorama angkasa.
In the sky bar we meet, in the sky bar you dance.
Your beauty summons hope in every breath. Timeless sky panorama.
Let Time Thicken Everything
Let time thicken everything (Lincoln).
And life goes on, goes on, goes on, new updates, new movements, new actions hide the old updates, old movement, old actions, for sure I can’t digest them all, and for sure if my brain can’t work anymore, and my heart can’t work anymore, just let time thicken everything, thicken your love, thicken my love, except all my hatred. And I love you, timelessly. MMmuach!
Apa itu Cinta?
Dua bulan, entah, atau, tiga bulan belakangan, gairah, hasrat dan keinginan untuk bermasturbasi terus meninggi, hampir tiada hari tanpa masturbasi, memang gangguan emosional akhir-akhir ini lebih meninggi dari sebelumnya, memang ini semua akumulasi dari pengabaian dan keterlenaan yang sudah-sudah. Manusia berasal dari surgawi, saat lelaki itu tak lagi menemukan surgawi di sekitarnya, ia mencipta dalam dirinya(Nya).
Bahkan nun jauh di sana, di negeri yang katanya seorang teman dari Jerman, Anne Esswein, adalah perbatasan bumi dan negeri surgawi, lelaki itu tetap tak kehilangan hasratnya untuk bermasturbasi.
Tentu saja masturbasi membutuhkan fantasi, berbagai macam tipikal orang keluar masuk dalam fantasi lelaki itu, tapi anehnya, lelaki itu tak pernah bisa memfantasikan seseorang yang katanya ia benar-benar sayangi, kasihi, seseorang yang disebutnya medium. Medium untuk melihat negeri surgawi dan keindahan ilahi, ia kerap berkata, ia senantiasa mengucapkan kalimat “Namaste” setiap kali ia melihat wajahNya, ia merasakan wajahNya yang indah hadir dalam wajah seseorang itu, perempuan itu.
Medan magnet, atomik dan alkemik, semuanya terhubung. Pernah lelaki itu berfantasi tentang seorang perempuan kaukasia di sebuah konferensi di negeri yang kata si Anne itu adalah perbatasan duniawi dan surgawi, di suatu malam -yang tak malam di negeri lainnya-. Perempuan kaukasia itu tampak jelas dalam fantasinya, dan akhirnya meletas keudara, entah kemana setelah prosesi masturbasi itu selesai. Esok harinya, perempuan kaukasia itu begitu dingin dan tak seramah saat lelaki itu pertama kali berjumpa, dan itu hanya sekedar fantasi, sekali lagi fantasi, tak ada sentuhan fisik sama sekali.
Medan alkemik, atomik dan magnet. Apa cinta itu, apakah perpaduan suci dan penglihatan,perabaan,perasaan keindahan wajahNya Yang tak Berbatas, atau kesemuaan (wholeness), dan tentu saja jika kesemuaan, itu termasuk juga gairah dan hasrat?
Caux 2012
It was my second journey to Caux, this time I came there with Huda, a friend of mind, coming there is like coming home and heaven, somehow it’s too and very beautiful, and I managed to climb up to the Rocher de Naye for the second time without feeling tired, I said a lot of thanks for my daily running training it really helps to keep my fitness, for sure I didn’t fast for around 5 days, and the rest I tried to keep fasting the days after, however during the fasting period I was struggling with my mind and heart since I kept questioning my mind and heart, for what reason I fast? for God? for my self? because during I fast, I felt separated from the rest of people there, because most of the conversation happened during meals time, such questions, like for what reason I have a religion? if it only separated me to the rest of people in the world? and at that time I heard in my country there were a conflict again in the name of religion, I love and like the word unity than separation, and at some point I prefer to call my self a traveler of Spirituality than being a Religious person, for me Spirituality means unity to other people, and still a lot of questions on faith commute in my mind and heart.
Before participating at Global Assembly, I participated in the Dynamics of Being Change Makers Conference, during the course I choose the Foundations for Freedom Learning Track, one of the reason why I joined this Learning Track was, I wanted to challenge my self, because before I heard a lot that women in Eastern Europe IofC teams took more roles than men, and I wanted to experience that, because sometime for me, it’s hard to fully accept women’s leadership, but during the course what I experience was that what I witnessed was a leadership not by men or women, but by human, I saw leadership without distinction, leadership is a leadership it has no gender, and I’m really impressed to the testimony of one my Ukrainian friend, one of the facilitator, her name is Angela Starovoytova, yes it was my first time I saw a lady cried because of : she found God in her life, I’m really impressed by her leap of faith, and how she experience God, normally I saw a lot of people cries because of materials, relationship, family, disasters or other human things, yes I’m impressed.
Global Assembly, coming to Global Assembly I was assigned by our team to share about our local programs here, and our recent project, building a center for training for IofC Indonesia, and my own mission there was to link the local initiatives here in Indonesia with the global initiatives, also understanding and comprehending IofC as a whole, it’s like understanding spirituality and complexity in the same time, in the spiritual context, it allows every single of us to have our own understanding towards the movement, also in this context IofC is very, very rich, there are a lot of stories that needed to be shared and offered to the world! and in another context which are institution, organisation, network or whatever you may call it, this movement is still in ongoing process to evolve itself to the best form to serve its people within the movement, and yes it should evolve beyond efficiency, which is, for me is resilience.
This journey to Caux is very special for me, because this time I came with Huda, to be fully, and fully working in a real team it’s always challenging for me, because it involves working together, compromises to be made, and I’ve just realised that it’s our first journey together, the main highlight for me is to accept and acknowledge that each of us are unique and each other has challenges that needed to be overcome.
A Hug Collector Caux day 2
I’m a hug collector, as a hug collector, here in Caux I feel I can find and share my treasure in it: a trust, for me hugging is one of the brightest sign of trust, and trust, of course it’s halal! Imagine if all people in the world can hug each other, imagine how the world would look like.
Today there were two hugs in the morning, from Russia and India 
, I feel like I’m being trusted by the World.
Caux Free and Warm Hugs
I’ve just settled in Caux! I did my first morning running, and having shower and feeling no more jet lag, jet lag is only in the perception and excuses, and mood too! I feel much more energised this time, yes I’ve just moved from my physical and emotional uncomfortable zone, a tiny island in East Java called Madura, nothing wrong with places, but what I felt last time was pressure, less spiritual, judgements, alienated, and enough, I want to clear that all now, I meet the world that I want to see here now!
Welcome to Caux, and let me counts my blessings in different hugs, Nigel Heywood, Jose Carlos Leon Vargas, Hsu Shoufeng, Mike and Jean Brown, Hsiao Yun, Adriana Borra, Kimanthi…yes that the hugs.
Yes I do like hugging because our physical and spiritual heart can get closer. I’ll update you with more hugs!
Menulis Notulensi
Langsung saja, demi kepraktisan serta berdasarkan pengalaman yang sudah-sudah, selama di hire menjadi notulen, seringkali saya terjebak membuat notulensi transkripsi, artinya menuliskan secara persis apa yang diucapkan oleh peserta pertemuan, jadilah catatan notulensinya memakan waktu yang agak lama, sekitar 1-2 hari baru bisa setor ke klien, dan notulensinya pun bukan notulensi yang sesungguhnya, karena memang sangat verbatim, jadilah transkripsi verbatim.
Kenapa baru sekarang cari Googling tentang notulensi? (entah kenapa bahasa Inggrisnya disebut dengan minutes of meeting), karena sekarang saya sangat merasakan efek dari notulensi, notulensi saya rasakan sangat berperan penting untuk mengeveluasi efektifitas dari sebuah pertemuan, dan karena sekarang saya memang lagi sepi order hiks, please hire me! I will do better! promise lah.
Baiklah inilah hasil pencarian saya di Google, dan yang paling menjawab kebutuhan saya dan tepatnya yang paling mudah saya cerna saya dapatkan di :
http://www.businesswritingblog.com/business_writing/2006/01/tips_for_writin.html
Okay, semuanya baik, maka dari itu saya terjemahkan saja (saya terjemah sendiri dan tidak pakai Google)
Untuk menghindari waktu yang sia-sia pada saat rapat/pertemuan, pastikan notulensi anda menjawab 10 (sepuluh) dari pertanyaan ini:
1. Kapan rapatnya? jam,tanggal, bulan, tahun
2. Siapa saja yang hadir?
3. Siapa saja yang tidak hadir? (cantumkan informasi kenapa mereka tidak hadir, jika diperlukan)
4. Topiknya apa saja?
5. Apa saja yang telah diputuskan?
6. Apa saja rencana tindak lanjut yang telah disetujui?
7. Siapa yang akan melaksanakan tindak lanjut tersebut, dan sampai kapan?
8. Apakah ada materi yang didistribusikan dalam rapat tersebut? Jika ada apakah ada kopiannya atau tautan yang tersedia?
9. Apakah ada sesuatu spesial yang terjadi selama rapat yang perlu diketahui oleh pembaca?
10. Apakah ada rapat lanjutan yang telah dijadwalkan? Jika ada, kapan? di mana? kenapa harus ada rapat tersebut?
Setiap notulensi (minutes of meeting, disingkat MoM atau minutes saja dalam bahasa Inggris) membutuhkan pointer atau heading, fungsinya agar pembaca dapat membaca informasi-informasi penting yang mereka butuhkan. Cetakan atau tempalatenya dalam bahasa Indonesia seperti ini.
Topik
Keputusan
Tindak Lanjut yang telah Disetujui
Penanggung Jawab
Tenggat
Rapat Berikutnya
Tanggal dan Waktu
Tempat
Agenda
Peserta Rapat:
Bahasa Inggrisnya:
Topics
Decisions
Actions Agreed Upon
Person responsible
Deadline
Next Meeting
Date and Time
Location
Agenda items
Attendee:
Tambahan: juga bermanfaat, terutama di rapat-rapat yang belum dikenal, alias orang-orang yang hadir sama sekali baru bagi anda, usahakan sebelum meeting untuk menyebarkan kertas kecil ke setiap peserta rapat, dan minta ke setiap peserta untuk mengisi nama mereka di catatan kecil tersebut.
Okay Good luck guys, happy note taking!
